DRAFT LAST REVISED: JAN 21, 2017
THE PURPOSE of this website is to research and explore the ancient rites of the Hieros Gamos as a fundamental part of many ecstatic mystical experiences from the ancient world to our modern day. For millennia Hieros Gamos (also called the sacred marriage) were sexual rites that Mesopotamian adherents ritualized to harness the energy shared between mortals and entities. The reason this religion condoned and participated in these exchanges was because they believed the entities were gods that facilitated the opening of trade routes and support for their vast farmland. Technology, science and mysticism were synergistic and compatible. After 3,000 years of overuse though, the fertile soil dried up, the trade routes changed and the great Babylonia faded into desert sands. Even as money and power moved westward and a nonsexual spirituality emerged, somehow the Hieros Gamos survived. Greed, cultural fear, prudery from both materialists and the new monogamous religions created taboos that made the productive discussions of such exchanges difficult if not impossible. Even with all the power leveled against both sex and entities, the Hieros Gamos that always systemized and capitalized on the interaction with these so called "gods" might be hidden now, but it's still here because such interactions won't stop. I don't know if a physical passion is present between every mystic and their daemon, but passion certainly is the driving force for many. As I followed ecstatic mysticism, it led me to the Jewish Kabbalah and the Hieros Gamos. I had to ask how an ancient Mesopotamian rite found its way into the culture and society of a monotheistic paradigm? and can it still serve me as a mystic even if I'm not Jewish?
The following excerpt from St. Terese ‘s wiki page and her encounters with the sacred Other, perfectly mirrors my own interactions with Ayelward. An excerpt from her Wiki page says:
Around 1556, various friends suggested that her newfound knowledge was diabolical, not divine. She began to inflict various tortures and mortifications of the flesh upon herself. But her confessor, the Jesuit Saint Francis Borgia, reassured her of the divine inspiration of her thoughts. On St. Peters Day in 1559, Teresa became firmly convinced that Jesus Christ presented himself to her in bodily form, though invisible. These visions lasted almost uninterrupted for more than two years. In another vision, a seraph drove the fiery point of a golden lance repeatedly through her heart, causing an ineffable spiritual-bodily pain.
I saw in his hand a long spear of gold, and at the point there seemed to be a little fire. He appeared to me to be thrusting it at times into my heart, and to pierce my very entrails; when he drew it out, he seemed to draw them out also, and to leave me all on fire with a great love of God. The pain was so great, that it made me moan; and yet so surpassing was the sweetness of this excessive pain, that I could not wish to be rid of it...
As far as I can tell, the Hieros Gamos as an ecstatic mystical process works if the mind, body and spirit are sacred, synergic, integrated and transformative. Lets find methods to make that happen.
ECSTASY OF ST. TERESE